13 People Confesses The Most Eye Opening Thing About Their Family After They'd Moved Out.
His parents weren't on good terms. Arguments were served more than food. Mostly, his father never appreciated things done by his mother because of which he had an aversion to his father.
On moving out of his house, he realized how unnecessarily his mother used to spend the money and which his why his father spoke rudely to her. On realizing this, he now beholds a close bond with his father.
#12 Kindness Is All It Takes.
So his and his sister's friends always felt like stopping by at their place, neither of them had a clue why. Later on stepping out of the house they knew how generous their parents were. They say, "My parents wanted everyone to be comfortable, and if your family was bad, my mom wanted to adopt you. Orientation, race, disability, whatever, my mom just wanted everyone to be fed and warm and loved. And my dad just shrugged and fed them or handed over a blanket."
Even now, some of their friends visit their parents when they're low on life.
#11 Kids In The House = No Fun.
His parents weren't happy with him and his sister till they time they stayed with them. Once both the kids went out to live on their own, the couple was back in the game with so much love for each other like never before. Lately, they'd even celebrated their 33rd wedding anniversary.
But the kids are happy to see their parents as a happily married couple once again.
#10 The Money Business.
Most of the mommies love to spend the money on themselves. Well who doesn't. Similar story was with this never really got through his head till the time he walked out of the house. But he surely appreciates how a saint his father was.
#9 Home Is Where Family Is.
Coming from an Asian family, growing up wasn't an easy job and she'd always prayed for her legal age to come soon so that she can leave the house and live on her own. But on moving out she realized what it takes to look after everything.
She now takes account of how her mother worked hard to keep the house clean, home food was the major missing, how habituated she was of her mother who dragged her sleep, she now knows the worth of a family.
He still has no idea why the people in his house never turned on the heater during winters. Even during freezing chill winters, they'd never felt the need to turn the warmer on.
#7 Nothing But Love.
On leaving his house to settle on his own, he'd recognized how badly he misses his mom and more than that, meals cooked by her. She'd never asked for anything in return but only love.
#6 She's Got Her Lesson Learnt.
These kid's mom used to be manipulative and controlling. All they could think of 'Well, that's just mom' but months later when they'd started living on their own, she was the most concerned mom who wanted her kids back to stay with her.
#5 Sense Of Relief.
His father was the most annoying happened to him. Criticizing every bit of life's happening. This pulled her mother down as well. He couldn't survive in this environment peacefully and was a victim of anxiety and depression for quite a good time now.
On reaching his legal age, he stepped out the house. Last month, on a vacation with family to NYC, he was certain of the fact that he no longer loves his family and is happy to stay away from them.
#4 Mommy Be The Best.
This kid's childhood wasn't so happening because of financial crisis. Little did he knew about this until the time he left home. On facing financial trouble while he lived on his own, he realized why his mother always said, "I'm not hungry, I'll just have a bite of your food!"
#3 When Habit Becomes Nature!
Mommies want their house to be neat and clean bug this one was a real cleanliness freak. His son recalls his childhood time and says, "One of the rules she strictly enforced was the "no smelly garbage" rule. Basically, you weren't allowed to throw anything potentially smelly in the trash like a banana peel, apple core, chicken bone, avacado skin, you name it. Instead, she had an old tissue box she filled with plastic grocery bags, and you'd have to take one of those out, put your banana peel in it, tie it up, and hoard it in the freezer with the other peels all week until garbage day. "
On opposing her, she would shed a few drops of tears followed by heavy emotional sentences which were enough to let him obey the instructions.
Years later, now he stays with a roommate and his habit incorporated by his mom has become his nature, he now realizes how annoying this could be when his roommate opposes his such activities.
#2 No Hugging Business!
Who doesn't want a hug? But this family are anti-hug people. No matter how happy or sorrow they feel, there was no hugging each other at all. This made this guy stay away from the emotions of hug and when anyone asks or offers one, he is the most awkward person ever.
#1 Life Is All About Adventure.
His parents would always be over protective about him, they were supportive but not motivational. He did pretty good in high school and graduation but they'd never pushed him to do something great with his life. It was when he'd moved out and stayed on his own, got a good sum of salary, traveled the world but they still tried to pulled him down saying, "be careful! You read about the attacks!"
He knows what it takes to be a great caring parents and that it's just out of their concern and little knowledge about what lige is like outside.
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