If You Keep Doing These 5 Things,You'll Never Find 'The One'
In the modern world, arranged marriages are a relic of the past. We live in times when finding the love of our lives occupies quite a lot of space on our to-do list. As soon as you are done with college, family tries to set you up with potential bed buddies. And you're no different. You want someone to go to dinners on Fridays and wake up next to on Saturdays and maybe even spoil yourself with a Sunday together. The Internet hasn't missed an opportunity to capitalize on anything in the 21st century and our love life is no exception. E-matrimony, Tinder, AdultFriendFinder - they're all poking you for it. And you so desperately want to fill the person shaped hole in your heart too.
But that's not how you go about it. Contrary to popular opinion, you should focus on yourself. The best things come to you only when you stop chasing them. So is the love of your life. Here's 5 things you'll do that are never gonna let you meet your significant one.
One nigth stands are not taboo anymore. Everyone does it once in a while, and it's healthy if not essential for your sanity. The problem begins when your one night stand becomes your go-to for casual sex. It might seem great - your sexual needs are satisfied and there aren't any attachments. But that's gonna keep you half-satisfied all the time and that is not how you'll find the other half.
It always happens when you've given up hope. Don't wake up everyday hoping to meet the one. In doing that, you're forgetting to live your life. Delete your online dating profile. Stop expectantly looking at your facebook inbox. Just sit back, live your life and watch the magic happen. You need to be receptive for good things to happen to you. When you're constantly on the look out, you're not.
#3 You're missing the universal signs.
The universe is always talking to you. Giving you signs. But you're not listening. And that's not going to work out. Think about it. Are you with whom you are because you're afraid of dying alone or do you have legit reasons? Are you doing something that you feel you don't want to do but you are doing it because you have to? Listen to your inner voice and watchout for signs from the universe.
#2 You refuse to break the bond with an ex.
If you thought you two were Ross & Rachel, welcome to the real world. And my dear, it's not a fairy tale. You're never going to meet your one if you keep your ex on the line. If you really think they're the one, go right ahead. But don't blame yourself if you end up in a loveless marriage just because you didn't know when to cut the cord.
#1 You lost faith.
You thnk you're too old and it's the end of the line for you. You've lost faith and we all do sometimes. But what we don't realize is that's a deal breaker. Who will love you if you don't even believe in yourself? Believe in you. Maybe the one is just around the corner.
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