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The Reason Why I Love My Wife More Than My Kids





Author Mike Berry wrote on his blog that he loves his wife more than his kids and she is more important in his life rather than his kids which made people confused by this revelation and some even criticized him. We always prefer our family first but in this article this man suggested and he also follows that his wife is more important than his children and the reason will satisfy your doubts, so here let's know the reason why.

Mike's Story

Mike's Story

Mike Berry is a writer and a father. He tried explaining why his wife matters to him the most and even the children don’t match up the kind of importance his wife is for him. He thinks that everyone, every family should adopt this idea. As a writer, he wrote about this and his article received a lot of mixed reviews. Mike along with his wife, Kristen has adopted 8 children and raising them up together. They have been married for 17 years. He says that “It is usually 8:30 when I give my 2 teenage daughters the first warning that it’s time. And at 9 pm I tell them, “You should go to your room.” I do this almost every evening. And they argue every time, “Why do we have to go to bed at 9? We are not children anymore!” “You don’t have to go to bed now, I’m simply asking you to leave the living room. Mom and I haven’t seen each other for the entire day because we were concentrated on our work. We need time to be together.”

A healthy marriage

A healthy marriage

This is a rule that is being followed by this family for a long time now and And Mike says that they have spent 15 years raising the children and it hasn’t come in their way to spent time with each other. They love their children and they are always available for them whenever they need them but there are 4 reasons as to why a couple should choose each other over their children. One, Children are not the cornerstone of your family. They are a huge part of it but they are not the ones holding this chaotic structure we call family. Two,The most important part of the family is you and your wife, your husband your partner. Three, It’s you who has all the responsibility. And Four, the children choose their paths based on your example.



Before them, it was us.

Before them, it was us.

The couple had only each other before they adopted children together. They have spent so much time together when they fell in love. The children are very important to them they are empathetic to them but they cannot just ignore their married life because it is very sacred and they do whatever it takes to protect it!



After them, it will be us.

After them, it will be us.

Nothing really lasts, there will be a time when there will be no children around them, they will go make their families and then they would only have each other and so they should pay more attention to what relationship they build with each other too. It is not easy, but it is not impossible either.

We need to set a future example

 We need to set a future example

Children learn from their parents and follow in their footsteps. And Mike always says that “We are raising adults, not children.” Mike wants his marriage to be an example for his children and so that they would have a positive attitude towards dating, marriage, and love. But, when they see a good relationship and their parents love for each other that is when they will take care of their relationships too. This is why he asks his children to their rooms at 9 pm every evening. And he even takes his wife for a date twice a month. He says, “This is why my wife comes before my children.”





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